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EMBRACE CHRISTMAS YET TO COME (Part 3/3)

CAN YOU CHOOSE “YOUR KIND OF CHRISTMAS”?
One of my girlfriends called me last Friday to tell me that she was celebrating Christmas Day without her family for the first time.  She sound breathless and a tiny bit scared as she announced she was spending the day with (gasp!) her friends.  She prattled on about all the things she just puts up with in her own family–especially at big family gatherings.  Yes, she loves them; and, Yes, she wants to spend the day with… More

CONTENTMENT IN CHRISTMAS PRESENT (Part 2/3)

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ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GET TO AGE 50
There is a turning point in the relationship between parents and children when the shackles of the past fall away and everyone can be the age they really are.  It is supposed to happen during the teenage years as children establish independence and learn to be adults, while parents learn to let go–benevolently.  I am not sure if that is really the norm or just a nice idea.  For me it only happened when my parents became… More

FAREWELL TO GHOSTS OF CHRISTMAS PAST (Part 1/3)

I often write about the joys of being over 50 years old.  The holidays are yet another time to be grateful for reaching that age of independence.
IN RECOVERY FROM FAMILY CHRISTMAS CELEBRATIONS

From my mid-twenties to my mid-forties I found the holidays something to be endured with as much passive grace as I could muster.   I referred to Christmas as “The Christmas Ordeal”.  During that period I lived in New York City.  Three of my four siblings lived nearby.… More

CAREGIVER STRESS

Someone needs to care for the caregiver.  Sometimes the only person around is you.  Here are some practical suggestions

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COPING STRATEGIES: DISABLED PARKING

HANDICAPPED PARKING OVERLOOKED
You may not be aware that you qualify for a disabled parking placard.   If you are disabled or a caregiver for a disabled person you should check out your eligibility.  Being able to park near the entrance to a building can mean the difference between mobility and isolation for many.  It is a coping strategy that reduces physical and emotional stress for caregivers and enables those with physical disabilities to stay independent.
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STRESS COPING STRATEGIES: A DOG’S VIEWPOINT

Both animals and laughter help relieve stress. Enjoy this silly video on stress coping strategies from a dog’s point of view.… More